Annoying drivers

Don't flash your lights at me when I'm driving and it's dark out because you make me think you're telling me to turn off my brights, which I don't know how to turn on in the first place, and that makes me fiddle with my lights and that makes me a not so safe and seriously confusing driver and makes me look like a fool to my passengers and when i keep turning off my lights thinking I'm being courteous and not blinding you, I actually cant see and the I have to put them back on right after you pass and then I look crazy and ADD to the next oncoming driver, who will invariably flash his lights at me and start the whole process again.